About a week ago Bry and I started this 'thing'. We call it the 'Cup of Love'. How it works is we both write down things to do on a little piece of paper, fold them and stash them in our cup of love (we each have our own) The things we choose can't cost money or require leaving our property. We take turns drawing something from each others cup. One night he picks from mine the next night I pick from his. Well, last night was my turn to draw from his love cup. I drew 'go down stairs and play'. We headed down and he wants to play dodge ball. So we get all set up and start to play. Now at school he is the KING, but....little does he know ;) Ok, I got lucky, haha! I WIN, I WIN!!!! When all was said and done we head back upstairs. He was a little on the 'grumpy' side so he races upstairs ahead of me shuts all the lights off and slams the door. I didn't say anything about it and then this morning I find this note on my computer "I'm sorry Mom, I love you more" =) =) Awww...what a sweetie. He asked me if I got the note and said he was sorry for shutting the lights off and slamming the door on me. Without me saying a word, he thought things through and knew 'maybe that wasn't the kindest thing to do'. GOOD sign that I'm doing something right. Woohoo...tonight he picks from MY cup =) Hope he picks 'take a nap'. Kidding, I didn't put that. He said as we each were filling our cups "you can't put TAKE A NAP!!" But a movie in bed snuggled up and surrounded by snacks would be GREAT...especially since I have a 4 AM ballgame to tune to tomorrow =) I love you Mom (((((((HUGS)))))))) *******KISSES********